Its common that "JEALOUSY" exists.
I mean seriously...how many of you guys can stand seeing your own girlfriends stickin' ,hangin' around and being close to other guys out there? (or vice-versa)
Even if its just a friend!, unless its some relatives, bestie for decades.
Girls feel the same way too!
RULE 1:BE MORE SENSITIVE! AUTOMATIC! Keep a little distance if you have to!
Quoted from a real good buddy:
"GIVE YOU FREE BUFFET YOU DONT WANT EAT MEH!? =X "
yes yes. I totally understand...
They say "OUT OF 10 man, 9 are BASTARDS and 1 is GAY".(sorry if you dont belong to this group =), its just a saying, so dont be offended)
No reassurance.
No sense of security.
It probably leads to No MUTUAL TRUST, = NO STABLE RELATIONSHIP.
You can't blame us for being DAMN agitated when we heard about issues like this.
You will feel the same too.
If there are so many wild flowers and wonderful garden out there, then why settle down and pollinate a flower???
The bee might as well fly around anywhere it wants to... and exploring the whole garden at your own pace.
RULE 2: Dont get into a relationship if you can never commit.
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A relationship should have basic care and concern, RESPONSE, effort, COMMUNICATION,love.
A couple can talk about ANYTHING UNDER THE SKY, NO SECRETS!
What makes you think that when there's breakdown in communication, no replies from either parties,let each day pass as it is, will work?
Who will wanna live through each day in this situation?
Man are visual creatures.
Woman are the ones that need to HEAR and be Touched.
Its just human nature.
If making things work is too much and too tiring for you now, what makes you think that you can walk til the end with your partner and be there for each other forever.
If everything is categorized under TROUBLESOME, then forget about supporting each other no matter what happens,it wont last til the end if there's NO EFFORT.
RULE 3: learn to care and concern and communicate.
Take initiatives, put in a little more effort to make a better future!
Always repond and reply when someone ask you something,They are talking to a living thing and not a wall pls!
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I've been hearing complaints from my girls that when their boys GO HIGH and DRUNK..!
you jolly know what kinda photos will be posted online.
Being caught red handed hugging other chicks on earth.
what do you expect your girlfriends to do after looking at that?
To ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED?
or to throw her temper and WORLDWAR begins?
you sure its just being oversensitive?
put yourself in her shoes!
How about switching the whole situation and twist it around?
Guys seeing their girls like that.
comments like:
Sluts, Flirts, Bitch seducing other guys, being too close....
Isn't it?
Rule 4: Don't do it , if you don't like it.
Only then, you will expect your partner to do the same way too.
Always learn to put yourself in other people's shoes.
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Everyone hates their other half to be OVER POSSESSIVE.
Control too much = overpossessive
letting loose = giving you chance to misbehave
What do you expect us do?
what's the cause of being over-possessive?
Think about it.
Rule 5: Think about the causes of why your partner is being overpossessive.
Did you do your part?
Did you neglected your partner?
Were you living in your own world and couldnt care more, cant be bothered?
Did you not give enough attention?
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Guys complain when their chicks wear TOO LOW, TOO REVEALING,TOO SHORT , TOO MUCH SKIN.
Back to basic, how many of you guys dont like seeing that much skin?
Thousand pairs of eyes following pretty hot chicks with apple bottom jeans, boots with the fur,deep cleavage.
Isn't it?
Its just being protective right,thats what they say.
Or rather how many of them will be attracted to your beauty if you aint like that?
Let's say there are sexy chicks like this!
What makes you think that the Boys can keep their "TORCH" to themselves, if these girls hook them up and sit on their laps.
Rule 6: Tell them its for their own good.
Its to protect them from bad guys.
Or rather, its more presentable or maybe phrase it in a way that, you would love to see them looking hot and pretty,for its for your eyes to see ONLY.
Be nice and not throw temper or scream at them or BLACK FACE the whole freakin day.
KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELVES and tell youself that YOU are faithful to your DEAR ONLY!
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What makes you think that when you GOT IT, you won't LOSE IT?
Think Twice!
Rule 7: Over-confident is NOT the way.
The moment they realised you aint the right one, they might just walk away.
Start acting smart and be nice,put in some effort before its too late.
What if you can never find a better one?
Why do people only treasure it when they lose it?
Where's the mutual trust people???
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It's already being nice when your partner caught u eyeing on eyecandies,Hot sexy people on the streets,DROOLING, and they shut up and act like nothing happened, or maybe some are kind enough, they enjoy sharing pretty people on the streets with you.
Nobody wants to end up in an argument because of such trivial matters.
That saves alot of headache and heartbreaking moments!
You dont want them SCREAMING AT YOU BECAUSE OF FREAKING JEALOUSY!
RULE 8: APPRECIATE IT! Stop drooling, smart ways of scanning, taking a glance is totally acceptable, be quick and low profile!
Dont let your eyes follow whereever the hot people goes.
strike a conversation with your partner!
Share the joy of looking at beautiful people!
just when your partner get pissed, just simply say "you're the most beautiful person in my heart!"
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If you want TRUST and RESPECT, you've gotta EARN IT!
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